04-17-2012, 03:00 AM
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Generally, people seem to think that having children makes everything better and as an result they think the sun shines right out of all of their children's asses... what the hell is with that?
the very definition of a breeder: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=breeder
I had this lady a week ago who kept on insisting that I SHOULD have children, because apparently she thought I was being miserable and somehow me having children would make me a happier rounded person. She was also SOO sorry for the fact that I was deaf, part of why she thought I was such a miserable person.
She just didn't fucking get the fact that I was HAPPY being deaf AND child-free. Sure, I wouldn't mind having some children in the future but not right now. I just like the peace and quiet I have way too much right now to risk it all.
I don't consider myself to be disabled. some people would argue that not being able to hear gives you some difficulty in life. but the way I see it ANYTHING can give you difficulty in life... whenever it be being white, black, or anything else that would set you apart from the mainstream masses. You just do your best with what life gives you, and you just function normally as a human being. And so far you can't even tell that I'm deaf by looking at me and stuff. I pretty much look like anybody else....
So what the fuck did that woman think she was doing, thinking that I would be eternally miserable because of who I was? pfft, please! I have a good life....
Sure I'm not rich, and I don't have a epic income but I still make money, and I can still live comfortably within my own means. I'm not scrapping by or living in poor conditions. Why would I want to fuck that shit up by having kids?
the very definition of a breeder: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=breeder
Quote:1: slang term used by some childfree people for one who has a child and/or has many after that, refuses to discipline the child/ren, thinks the sun rises and sets for their child/ren, look down upon people who do not have children, and are in general very selfish and greedy when it comes to their whims and those of their child/ren, especially if they can use their parenthood status or their children as an excuse to get their way. A female breeder is commonly called a moo, and a male breeder a duh.
2: slang term used by people of homosexual persuasion to refer to heterosexual couples, who have a significantly higher risk of contributing to the population increase than the homosexuals do.
I had this lady a week ago who kept on insisting that I SHOULD have children, because apparently she thought I was being miserable and somehow me having children would make me a happier rounded person. She was also SOO sorry for the fact that I was deaf, part of why she thought I was such a miserable person.
She just didn't fucking get the fact that I was HAPPY being deaf AND child-free. Sure, I wouldn't mind having some children in the future but not right now. I just like the peace and quiet I have way too much right now to risk it all.
I don't consider myself to be disabled. some people would argue that not being able to hear gives you some difficulty in life. but the way I see it ANYTHING can give you difficulty in life... whenever it be being white, black, or anything else that would set you apart from the mainstream masses. You just do your best with what life gives you, and you just function normally as a human being. And so far you can't even tell that I'm deaf by looking at me and stuff. I pretty much look like anybody else....
So what the fuck did that woman think she was doing, thinking that I would be eternally miserable because of who I was? pfft, please! I have a good life....
Sure I'm not rich, and I don't have a epic income but I still make money, and I can still live comfortably within my own means. I'm not scrapping by or living in poor conditions. Why would I want to fuck that shit up by having kids?